How to Choose Your Wedding Photographer

(It’s About More Than Pretty Pictures)

If you’re in the middle of planning your wedding, you’ve probably found yourself knee-deep in spreadsheets, Pinterest boards, and Insta saves—and at some point, you’ll land on the all-important task of choosing your wedding photographer.

You know you want photos you’ll love forever. You want to feel relaxed, look like yourselves, and have all those magic little moments captured without being constantly told where to stand or how to pose.
But here’s the thing most blogs don’t tell you:

👉 Choosing your wedding photographer is about so much more than just liking their portfolio.

Your Photographer Is With You… All Day

Not to scare you, but your photographer might spend more time with you than your own partner on the day. From getting ready in the morning, right through to the confetti chaos and dancing at night—they’re there. Front row for the nerves, the kisses, the “oh my god it’s happening” tears.

So it’s so important that you actually like them.

💬 Do you feel comfortable around them?
💬 Could you imagine having a laugh together?
💬 Do you feel seen, heard, and totally yourself in their presence?

That connection matters just as much as how their photos look. Maybe even more.

Portfolios Are Just the Highlights—Look for the In-Between, Too

Some photographers’ portfolios will be full of the big moments—first kisses, confetti tosses, champagne sprays, epic couple portraits. And those are absolutely important. You deserve those standout shots.

But also ask: Can they capture the smaller stuff too?

The way your gran holds your hand during the speeches.
That teary smile your partner gives you just before you walk down the aisle.
The messy, joyful chaos of flower kids covered in cake.

These little in-between moments are what make the day feel real when you look back. It takes a photographer with a documentary eye—and a sense of emotional timing—to spot and capture them without turning it into a production. That’s something I quietly pride myself on.

It’s Not Just About the Day—It’s the Journey

When you book me, you’re not just booking someone to show up with a camera and wing it.

I genuinely care about the whole experience. I stay in touch throughout the planning process—checking in, chatting through timelines, being there for the “is this a silly question?” texts, and making sure you always feel supported. We’ll go through everything in our pre-wedding check-in, from key timings and group photo lists to family dynamics and moments that matter most to you.

By the time your wedding comes around, it’ll feel like I’m just another friend with a camera—except, you know, one who knows exactly when to duck out of the first kiss shot.

Let’s Talk Style: Relaxed, Joyful, and a Little Bit editorial

If you’re after stiff poses and magazine-perfect perfection… I’m probably not the one for you. And that’s okay!

But if you love the idea of natural, joyful, relaxed photography—images that actually feel like you—then we might just be a perfect match.

I shoot in a mostly documentary style, blending into the background and capturing real emotion, real chaos, and real fun. That said, I do love a wee editorial twist when the light is right—nothing too serious, just a sprinkle of magic. Think of it as Vogue-meets-happy-dancefloor.

Weddings Are for Everyone—And So Is Joyful, Authentic Photography

I believe wedding photography should be for everyone—regardless of body size, age, gender identity, or orientation.

You deserve to feel safe, celebrated, and seen exactly as you are. That’s not just a nice-to-have—it’s a core part of how I work.

As an inclusive and supportive ally, I make it my mission to create a space where every couple can feel relaxed, respected, and completely themselves. No awkward assumptions, no stereotypes—just you, your love, and a photographer who genuinely gives a sh*t about making you feel amazing.

Why Couples Choose Me (In Their Words)

Many of my couples say they felt awkward in front of the camera before we met—but after their wedding, they’re messaging me saying how much fun it was and how them the photos feel. That’s the biggest compliment I could ever get.

One past couple wrote:

“Lou was honestly like a ray of sunshine—she made us feel so relaxed and captured the most beautiful, genuine moments without us even realising. Our photos are full of joy, personality, and all the little in-between bits we didn’t know we’d want to remember forever.”

It’s not just about creating beautiful images—it’s about capturing your story, in a way that feels totally you. And making sure you feel comfortable, confident, and cared for from start to finish.

What Should You Actually Look for in a Photographer?

Here’s a quick checklist:

✅ Do you like their vibe as a person?
✅ Do you feel comfortable and understood when chatting with them?
✅ Does their style reflect how you want your wedding to feel, not just look?
✅ Do they offer support before the day, or just show up and shoot?
✅ Do their images make you feel something—even the small, quiet ones?

Ready to Find the Right Fit?

If you’ve read this and thought, “Yes, this sounds like us”—then I’d love to hear from you.

Whether you’re planning a quirky barn bash, a confetti-filled garden party, or something totally your own, I’d love to come along for the ride. Head over to my contact page or drop me a message on Instagram, and let’s have a wee chat about your plans.

Because when we connect, the photos do too.